Several years ago, during one of our holiday trips, we went shopping at Downtown Disney. For those who aren’t familiar, Downtown Disney is an open mall, filled with shops and restaurants. The stores were crowded with vacationers and locals enjoying the holiday decorations.
As always, my son, Mike, was walking in front of me. I typically walk behind him. I guide him through crowds verbally and redirect him as needed. He tends to walks at an extremely fast pace; whenever I get ahead of him, he speeds up to pass me.
As we were walking through one of the stores, Mike spotted a young man standing in line to check out of the store. The man was in his twenties and had two prosthetic legs. His father was standing behind him and noticed Mike’s course correction in their direction.
Mike was on a mission and, in his excitement, picked up his pace. I immediately knew where he was heading and started chasing after him, calling his name – anything to slow him down. In my mind, I was hoping I could explain his autism before he invaded their space.
As I was rushing over, I locked eyes with the young man’s father, he smiled and mouthed, “It’s OK.” I immediately felt some relief – at least he understands.
As we approached, I began apologizing. I started explaining that Mike has autism and is attracted to uniqueness in individuals. Before I could get the words out, Mike hit the floor to examine this young man’s prosthetic legs. Did I mention we were standing in a crowded store? I was horrified. The young man and his father were extremely kind and understanding – assuring me that it was all right.
As quickly as he hit the floor, Mike stood up. He looked the young man in the eyes and said this:
“HIGH FIVE, Robot Legs – AWESOME!”
The young man gave Mike the high-five, looked at me, and said:
“Thank you – I needed that.”
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Absolutely wonderful. Kudos to your son. He sounds to be such a beautiful person who “gets” it.
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Great story. Magic legs, as Forrest Gump said.
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It just made me smile. Others being understanding, and a special-need-child with a special insight, giving one down-spirited precious soul what he needed – a big cheer up! Yay!
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Absolutley awesome! Absolutely!
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I love this! I’m often quick to assume that my daughter is going to say the wrong thing, but then she reminds me that she has a wonderful heart when something like this comes out 🙂
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Love it 🙂
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Having a “Robot Leg” of my own I loved this story. Children, no matter their circumstances, are awesome and bring healing in some very innocent and magical ways!:) Blessings and abundant peace! ~Matthew
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Please keep on touch. Your son mike sounds like my son mike
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Kids are amazing recently at a local park a boy with Down syndrome comes to play and the kids see him as a super hero. He makes sure all kids play with each other as soon as one kid ventures out of eye site he yells at the nannies to bring them back so the kid can be safe
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Há algumas semanas, durante uma de nossas viagens, fomos fazer compras no Downtown Disney. Para aqueles que não conhecem Downtown Disney é um shopping aberto, cheio de lojas e restaurantes. As lojas estavam lotadas com turistas e cidadãos locais, admirando a decoração de Natal. Como sempre, meu filho, Mike, estava andando na minha frente. Normalmente eu ando atrás dele, guiando ele oralmente e redirecionando-o quando preciso. Ele tende a andar com passos extremamente largos, sempre que ando a frente dele, ele acelera para me ultrapassar.
Enquanto andávamos em uma das lojas, Mike viu um jovem esperando na fila do caixa. O homem tinha uns 20 anos e tinha duas pernas protéticas, seu pai estava parado logo atrás e percebeu que Mike estava indo em sua direção.
Mike estava em uma missão em sua mente, com muito entusiasmo. Eu sabia onde ele estava indo e comecei a correr atrás dele, chamando seu nome – e fazendo qualquer coisa para ele ir mas devagar. Na minha mente, eu esperava poder explicar que ele tinha autismo antes de Mike chegar ao seu destino.
Eu olhei para o pai do jovem, ele sorriu e disse “Está tudo bem.” Eu me senti aliviado- ao menos ele conseguiu me compreender. Eu comecei a me desculpar e a explicar que Mike tinha autismo e que ele se atrai por singularidades nas pessoas. Antes de eu colocar todas as palavras para fora, Mike sentou no chão e começou a analisar as pernas protéticas. Eu mencionei que estávamos no meio de uma loja lotada ? Eu estava horrorizado. O jovem e seu pai foram extremamente bondosos e compreensivos – dizendo-me que estava tudo bem.
Assim que Mike ficou de pé, ele olhou para o jovem nos olhos e disse :
“Bate aqui, pernas de robôs – Demais!”
O jovem olhou para mim e disse:
“Obrigado – Eu precisava ouvir isso.”
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What a wonderful post. Thank you for sharing this. 😀
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Another great example of all the wonderful things we as adults can learn from our children.
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An autistic child is loving and accepting of people. They are such a great example of love. Thank you for sharing your unconditional love and joy of learning love of Jesus through autism. Thanks for following Godshotspot.wordpress.com
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Autistic or not, the honesty of children is so refreshing, and usually easy to take. It’s the adult fears of embarrassment that so often get in the way. Lovely story.
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Actually started crying– that never happens with me. I guess it’s because we’ll never know the other side of the story…
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