If you follow the Kindness Blog’s Facebook page, you may have seen a recent post that read:
Hello to all! Due to the need to tend some personal issues, you may notice that the Kindness Blog is not up and running at full speed at this time. Fear not, we will be back sharing more good news and spreading kindness on a regular basis as soon as possible. In the meantime, we appreciate your patience, understanding, and support, and we hope you will continue to do some good in the world. ~Mike and Kristi
April definitely has brought more than May flowers to us, and to be honest, our respective challenges have left me feeling an absence of light and kindness. Last night, as I spent a quiet evening at home recovering from another germ warfare assault on my body and a bout of anxiety that shook me to my core, I reflected on the past month. As I did so, I realized how easy it is to see the best in others and situations and to be kind and loving to others and yourself when everything is going well. Truth be told, though, love, light, and kindness are needed the most when the world and people around you appear to be unkind and dark, and it is up to you (and by you, I mean myself included) to find and offer the goodness.
So, as I emerged from the physical and emotional hole I found myself in, I began to look for the lessons to be learned from the darkness and to find my way back to the light. Here is what I found:
Hurt people hurt people. When someone is hurt, sometimes, they lash out like a wounded animal, usually hurting either those who love them the most or random strangers. Their actions speak volumes about who they are and say nothing about who you are. Wish them well, and let them go.
Kindness begins at home. If you cannot go out into the world to shine your light, start with yourself. Positive affirmations, meditation, proper nutrition and hydration, and anything else that feeds your body, mind, and spirit in a positive way are all ways to shower yourself with kindness. When you feel good, you do good.
If you cannot help yourself, help someone else. It is amazing how much easier it can be to be kinder to others than it is to ourselves. Sometimes, helping another person does more for you than it does for the recipient. Giving feels good.
This, too, shall pass. There are times when the darkness seems all-encompassing, and in those times, be gentle with yourself, as the light will return. It is has an uncanny way of appearing when you need it the most.
As the rain falls outside of my window, I take heart in knowing that the sun will shine in due time. It always does, and until it does, we will weather the storm.
This Too Shall Pass indeed- I love this video by Ok Go which seems apt to share with you here!! 🙂 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qybUFnY7Y8w Sending you both love and light, and hoping you feel it!x
I love music, so, in addition to your most kind words, I thank you for sharing such a great song! I definitely am feeling the love and light, and I am sending some to you, as well.
Give yourself a pat on the back and know that you are allowed to feel weak and sad at times. Everything is a cycle and sometimes I think the dark times just make us reach more for the light and appreciate it when we get there. Praying for you.
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful perspective, as I know that Mike and I each are reaching for that light more and more. Your prayers touch me deeply, and I cannot thank you enough.
You are more than welcome, and thank you for taking the time to read it and respond to it. I always hope that what I write resonates with at least one person, and to know that you could relate to it makes this all the more meaningful. Your kind words made my day, and may we all have rainbows in our lives to look for when the storms end.
Helen, thank you so much, and it humbles me that you love our blog. Mike and I are taking care of ourselves, as we want to be able to give you all our best. Thanks for understanding and sticking with us!
Kristi, I have shared this with you before, but even Mother Teresa got down and had to pray for strength. Your voice means much to many, so when it is silent, each of us suffers with you. I hope you are feeling better, mentally, spiritually and physically. Take care of YOU first. You matter. Thanks for all you do. BTG
As always, your words touch my heart deeply and made me tear up. I cannot thank you enough for your endless support and understanding, as it helps me to find my voice when I feel as if I have nothing left to say. You matter, as well, and I am so fortunate to me traveling the blogosphere with you. Thanks for being there!
Many thanks for the positive feedback and prayers, as they all mean the world to me. Better days are ahead indeed for all of us, and I am glad that we are in this as a community.
Yes…I read this morning that pain is a hot potato passed from people who do not have the courage to sit with their own pain. To take this personally is to increase the pain burden or the size of the hot potato. I hope you come through this sooner rather than later…blessings xo
This is just what I needed tonight. Perhaps it will be a comfort to you as well.This is just what I needed tonight. Perhaps it will be a confort to you as well.this is just what I needed tonight. Perhaps it will bring you comfort too.this is jUst what i needed tonightThis was just what I needed tonight. Perhsps it will
Your statements are great! It isn’t easy to polarize on positive thoughts and clear energy when you feel empty… Is most important to realize that the LOA function well when is used constantly (which isn’t either so easy). You shall start your day thinking positive, the law of attraction is powerful but need to be practised constantly! Nevertheless, don’t forget about karma… which is another crucial point to think about with full consciousness…
Serenity :-)claudine
So sorry to hear that you are passing through a tough time, but you clearly have an enormous heart and you are solidly grounded. I know you will make it through this tough time and emerge with new strength and wisdom. Many are sending all good thoughts your way, including me. –lori
Hugs to you both Mike and Kristi. I did see the note on the FB page and send positive thoughts your way. It is true that when the light is out in our lives, we struggle to see the good even if it is right there in front of us. Know that this too shall pass and that life goes on. Blessings to you both.
Thank you so very much for your kind words, positive thoughts, and blessings, as they are appreciated and needed. We are so fortunate to have you in our corner!
I have also noticed that when I am working for the Lord and real miracles are happening, I experience that same anxiety. There is a spiritual battle for our soul and the world and also raging within each one of us. It is most difficult to continue being love to others when your world begins to shake. Scripture says to resist the devil and he will flee from you. God keeps His promises and wants the whole world to be free. We may not have tomorrow, but today love conquers all. Keep shining your light, my friend.
My sincerest thanks for sharing this with me! It is comforting to know that there is so much goodness, light, and love among this community. I thank you and wish you all the best!
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This Too Shall Pass indeed- I love this video by Ok Go which seems apt to share with you here!! 🙂 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qybUFnY7Y8w Sending you both love and light, and hoping you feel it!x
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I love music, so, in addition to your most kind words, I thank you for sharing such a great song! I definitely am feeling the love and light, and I am sending some to you, as well.
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Give yourself a pat on the back and know that you are allowed to feel weak and sad at times. Everything is a cycle and sometimes I think the dark times just make us reach more for the light and appreciate it when we get there. Praying for you.
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Thank you for sharing such a wonderful perspective, as I know that Mike and I each are reaching for that light more and more. Your prayers touch me deeply, and I cannot thank you enough.
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sending good thoughts your way… hang in there.
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Sincerest thanks for your good thoughts and kind words, as they do make a positive impact in our lives!
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Wonderful advice and attitude!
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Luanne, thank you so much, as your kind words make it even more worthwhile!
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Thank you. This post really resonates with me. I appreciate you writing it, and wish you much light and a rainbow at the end of the rain!
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You are more than welcome, and thank you for taking the time to read it and respond to it. I always hope that what I write resonates with at least one person, and to know that you could relate to it makes this all the more meaningful. Your kind words made my day, and may we all have rainbows in our lives to look for when the storms end.
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I appreciate your wise words. I love this blog! Please take time to take care of yourself.
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Helen, thank you so much, and it humbles me that you love our blog. Mike and I are taking care of ourselves, as we want to be able to give you all our best. Thanks for understanding and sticking with us!
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Kristi, I have shared this with you before, but even Mother Teresa got down and had to pray for strength. Your voice means much to many, so when it is silent, each of us suffers with you. I hope you are feeling better, mentally, spiritually and physically. Take care of YOU first. You matter. Thanks for all you do. BTG
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As always, your words touch my heart deeply and made me tear up. I cannot thank you enough for your endless support and understanding, as it helps me to find my voice when I feel as if I have nothing left to say. You matter, as well, and I am so fortunate to me traveling the blogosphere with you. Thanks for being there!
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Take time to recharge and get well. Praying for you. Things will get better. It’s only a temporary season.
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Many thanks for the positive feedback and prayers, as they all mean the world to me. Better days are ahead indeed for all of us, and I am glad that we are in this as a community.
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Your beautiful blog is full of light and hope.
Hope you are feeling better soon. 🙂
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Thanks so very much for the compliment and well wishes, as they are needed and appreciated greatly!
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Yes…I read this morning that pain is a hot potato passed from people who do not have the courage to sit with their own pain. To take this personally is to increase the pain burden or the size of the hot potato. I hope you come through this sooner rather than later…blessings xo
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Sara, thank you for sharing that analogy and for your blessings!
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Thank you very much for sharing this!
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This is just what I needed tonight. Perhaps it will be a comfort to you as well.This is just what I needed tonight. Perhaps it will be a confort to you as well.this is just what I needed tonight. Perhaps it will bring you comfort too.this is jUst what i needed tonightThis was just what I needed tonight. Perhsps it will
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I so appreciate you reblogging this!
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Your statements are great! It isn’t easy to polarize on positive thoughts and clear energy when you feel empty… Is most important to realize that the LOA function well when is used constantly (which isn’t either so easy). You shall start your day thinking positive, the law of attraction is powerful but need to be practised constantly! Nevertheless, don’t forget about karma… which is another crucial point to think about with full consciousness…
Serenity :-)claudine
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Claudine, thank you for sharing this with me, as it is food for thought and for the spirit.
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So sorry to hear that you are passing through a tough time, but you clearly have an enormous heart and you are solidly grounded. I know you will make it through this tough time and emerge with new strength and wisdom. Many are sending all good thoughts your way, including me. –lori
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Lori, I truly appreciate the vote of confidence and kind words, as they definitely help.
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I’m sorry to hear you’re you’re struggling to find the light right now. I will be sending some your way. I thought you might like to hear my struggle in the darkness and the lessons I learned. https://www.facebook.com/alegacyoflovefinn/posts/889514554461953:0
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Thank you so very much for your kind words and light, and I definitely will check you out on Facebook.
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Many thanks for sharing this; I am grateful indeed!
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Hugs to you both Mike and Kristi. I did see the note on the FB page and send positive thoughts your way. It is true that when the light is out in our lives, we struggle to see the good even if it is right there in front of us. Know that this too shall pass and that life goes on. Blessings to you both.
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Thank you so very much for your kind words, positive thoughts, and blessings, as they are appreciated and needed. We are so fortunate to have you in our corner!
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I have also noticed that when I am working for the Lord and real miracles are happening, I experience that same anxiety. There is a spiritual battle for our soul and the world and also raging within each one of us. It is most difficult to continue being love to others when your world begins to shake. Scripture says to resist the devil and he will flee from you. God keeps His promises and wants the whole world to be free. We may not have tomorrow, but today love conquers all. Keep shining your light, my friend.
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My sincerest thanks for sharing this with me! It is comforting to know that there is so much goodness, light, and love among this community. I thank you and wish you all the best!
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Soothing words of solace to troubled minds…thank u for sharing this post.
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Thank you so much for sharing this!
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