: Rocky 'Roque' Abalsamo has sat by the grave of his wife, Julita, at St. Joseph's Cemetery in Boston since she died in 1993. On January 22 he passed away

He Sat By Her Grave Every Day for Twenty Years

For the past 20 years, a man named Roque “Rocky” Abalsamo did something every day that is simply heartbreaking.

In 1993, his wife of 35 years, Julia “Julita” Echeverria Abalsamo, passed away. Ever since that day, he diligently sat by her grave in St. Joseph Cemetery in Boston, MA. He didn’t eat. He didn’t drink. All Rocky did was brave the heat, rain, cold and snow to be by his wife’s side.Rocky had been with Julita since 1937, and he never wanted to experience a day without her.

: Rocky 'Roque' Abalsamo has sat by the grave of his wife, Julita, at St. Joseph's Cemetery in Boston since she died in 1993. On January 22 he passed away
Rocky ‘Roque’ Abalsamo has sat by the grave of his wife, Julita, at St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Boston since she died in 1993. On January 22 he passed away.

The couple met in the 1930s in their native Buenos Aires. Rocky simply heard Julita talking to her friends and realized that he needed to know the person he heard, a woman full of so much love and goodness. Basically, since that moment, the two had been together. They lived a happy life together, marrying the spring after they had met. They had two children, who they eventually followed to the United States.

Rocky Abalsamo is pictured here on November 26, 2000, aged 84. He died this month, aged 93
Rocky Abalsamo is pictured here on November 26, 2000, aged 84. He died this month, aged 93

Rocky and Julita had been married for 55 years when Julita needed heart surgery. She died due to complications after the procedure. Rocky was so distraught without her and needed to be close to his wife. That’s why he began his daily vigil next to her grave that would last more than two decades.

The love of his life: Julita Abalsamo died from complications with heart surgery in 1993
The love of his life: Julita Abalsamo died from complications with heart surgery in 1993

In Boston, he was a local celebrity. He had visitors at the cemetery who would bring him clothes or food. Sometimes, they would just stop to talk. No matter how long the visit was, everyone who met him was moved by the love he had for his wife.

Everyday for 10 years Rocky Abalsamo went to the cemetery when it opened and would leave at closing. He rarely ate during the visits, mostly out of respect but also so he didn't need a bathroom
Everyday for 10 years Rocky Abalsamo went to the cemetery when it opened and would leave at closing. He rarely ate during the visits, mostly out of respect but also so he didn’t need a bathroom

Tragically, Rocky died on January 22nd at Stonehedge Health Care Center. He was 97 years-old and had experienced failing health for a while. Although his family will miss him, one thing is entirely clear: he and Julita are now reunited.

Sources: The Boston Globe & Daily Mail

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