There are as many definitions and descriptions of friendship as there are friends in the world. There are forever friends, fast friends, fair weather friends, true blue friends, and so forth. I am fortunate to have a very diverse group of friends who add so much to the little dog and pony show that I call my life, and I was more than happy to offer support to one of these friends this afternoon.
Real friends show up for each other in good times and in bad times and in every other kind of time, and that is exactly what I did for my friend and colleague. Frank is the 70-year-old Plant Manager at the day shelter for homeless men where we both work, and for 4 1/2 years, I have been his unofficial Assistant Plant Manager and official lunch buddy and partner in crime. Every day at precisely 12:30 p.m., we meet in the break room to share a meal, but more than food, we share the highs and lows of our day, stories of our respective lives, and laughter. Lots and lots of laughter.
It was no laughing matter when I received word the day after Christmas that Frank had fallen at his home and was taken by ambulance to the hospital, where he was diagnosed with a broken hip and underwent surgery. I was heart-broken to hear the news about my friend, and I cannot imagine returning to work and not seeing him there. He really means a lot to me, and I would do anything for him. So, today, I did what I could to support him during his recovery.
I surprised him at the nursing home where he is rehabilitating, and I administered a healthy dose of chatter and humor to boost his spirits and mine. We spent the better part of an hour talking about his recovery and catching up on all that has transpired since we last saw each other two weeks ago, and we fell into the easy rhythm that we have created over time together. When it came time to say ‘good bye’ to Frank, he thanked me, and I promised to return soon. I may not have healed his hip, but I hope that my visit helped his recovery in other ways. He may be a friend in need, but so am I, as I need my friend, Frank.
What a wonderful friend you are! I have no doubt you made a very huge difference in his day and in his rehab! There is nothing in the world quite so wonderful as knowing someone cares!
My pleasure! and yes it does make it worthwhile. I can tell you from experience how much it helps a person’s recovery from surgery, an injury and many other things that befall us in this life. I’ve been fortunate to have good friends, family and church family who have been there for me many times.
That’s all what friendship is for: being there for each other in good and in bad times. Laughing and crying together. Provide understanding and being understood. Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.
Sheila, thank you for the well wishes for Frank and for your always kind words. He means a lot to me indeed, and work will not be the same without him there.
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Nice story of a true friendship.
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Thanks so much; that means a lot to me!
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What a wonderful friend you are! I have no doubt you made a very huge difference in his day and in his rehab! There is nothing in the world quite so wonderful as knowing someone cares!
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If I were able to do that, it would make it all worthwhile indeed. Many thanks for sharing such kind words!
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My pleasure! and yes it does make it worthwhile. I can tell you from experience how much it helps a person’s recovery from surgery, an injury and many other things that befall us in this life. I’ve been fortunate to have good friends, family and church family who have been there for me many times.
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This was great thanks for posting it
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You are so welcome, and I am thrilled that you liked it!
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Happy new year and best wishes to you and yours for health, happiness, peace & prosperity in 2015!
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Many thanks for the kind wishes, and I wish you the same!
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That’s all what friendship is for: being there for each other in good and in bad times. Laughing and crying together. Provide understanding and being understood. Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.
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Thank you for such a wonderful description of what a real friendship is, as it is spot on! I am so glad that you liked this.
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How could anyone dislike this 😉
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You are the best. Take care.
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Aw, thank you, but it is easy to give my best to such a dear friend like Frank!
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Healing happens, even if we can’t see the scars.
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What a beautiful sentiment, and I am glad that you shared it!
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What a dear friend you are Kristi…both you and Frank are so lucky to have each other! Wishing Frank a speedy recovery!
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Sheila, thank you for the well wishes for Frank and for your always kind words. He means a lot to me indeed, and work will not be the same without him there.
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