Soon I Will be Gone Forever, but That’s Okay as Long as Someone Reads This.
I am only 24 years old, yet I have actually already chosen my last tie. It’s the one that I will wear on my funeral (above) a few months from now. It may not match my suit, but I think it’s perfect for the occasion.
The cancer diagnosis came too late to give me at least a tenuous hope for a long life, but I realized that the most important thing about death is to ensure that you leave this world a little better than it was before you existed with your contributions . The way I’ve lived my life so far, my existence or more precisely the loss of it, will not matter because I have lived without doing anything impactful.
Before, there were so many things that occupied my mind. When I learned how much time I had left, however, it became clear which things are really important. So, I am writing to you for a selfish reason. I want to give meaning to my life by sharing with you what I have realized:
- Don’t waste your time on work that you don’t enjoy. It is obvious that you cannot succeed in something that you don’t like. Patience, passion, and dedication come easily only when you love what you do.
- It’s stupid to be afraid of others’ opinions. Fear weakens and paralyzes you. If you let it, it can grow worse and worse every day until there is nothing left of you, but a shell of yourself. Listen to your inner voice and go with it. Some people may call you crazy, but some may even think you‘re a legend.
- Take control of your life Take full responsibility for the things that happen to you. Limit bad habits and try to lead a healthier life. Find a sport that makes you happy. Most of all, don’t procrastinate. Let your life be shaped by decisions you made, not by the ones you didn’t.
- Appreciate the people around you Your friends and relatives will always be an infinite source of strength and love. That is why you shouldn’t take them for granted.
It is difficult for me to fully express my feelings about the importance of these simple realizations, but I hope that you will listen to someone who has experienced how valuable time is.
I’m not upset because I understand that the last days of my life have become meaningful. I only regret that I will not be able to see a lot of cool stuff that should happen soon like the creation of AI, or Elon Musk’s next awesome project. I also hope that the war(s) in Syria and Ukraine will end soon.
We care so much about the health and integrity of our body that until death, we don’t notice that the body is nothing more than a box – a parcel for delivering our personality, thoughts, beliefs and intentions to this world. If there is nothing in this box that can change the world, then it doesn’t matter if it disappears. I believe that we all have potential, but it also takes a lot of courage to realize it.
You can float through a life created by circumstances, missing day after day, hour after hour. Or, you can fight for what you believe in and write the great story of your life. I hope you will make the right choice.
Leave a mark in this world. Have a meaningful life, whatever definition it has for you. Go towards it. The place we are leaving is a beautiful playground, where everything is possible. Yet, we are not here forever. Our life is a short spark in this beautiful little planet that flies with incredible speed to the endless darkness of the unknown universe. So, enjoy your time here with passion. Make it interesting. Make it count!
Thank you! ~ by ‘mylasttie’
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Wow. That is an amazing way to leave this world. You’ve made a difference to so many people.
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Thank you for inspriing me! 🙂 But what if my family threw me away because they thought of me like a trash. Well, Infact i am doing everything to make them proud. Actually i am adopted. That’s the problem of being adopted. But thank you once again! I hope life will be okay with me too. God bless you
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Bless you. You’ve made your voice heard more in this short time than many who have lived to old age. It’s true that it’s not the time you have, but what you do with it. I believe that we’re put on this earth to help our fellow men and be good caretakers. Like you, when it’s my time to go, I would like to know, to be given time to prepare. However, I also believe we should always be prepared since we may not know. 🙂 — Suzanne
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A great message to remember.
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That’s a lovely message you have left here for all of us, very valuable indeed. May you be blessed and may your passing be gentle. I just read your words to my partner who thought it very sound.
Wishing to thank you.
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Thank you for your beautiful offering. In addition, let us express our gratitude for every moment we have by spreading joy through the simple means of a smile… a friendly handshake… a sincere ‘thank you’… or any other gesture which leaves the world a little brighter. God bless you on your journey!
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Lovely! Thank you for your advice!
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If you know Jesus, don’t worry about the legacy you left behind.
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Fantastic story. Life is short and we are not given a guarantee for even one more breath than our last. Eye opening post about what is really important when you boil all of the things out that don’t really matter or amount to much in the end. Do the things that count for an eternity while you are in the living and then live there. GOD does have a plan for each of us… we need to find him and live it out…
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you have given me so much wisdom in such a short life to be positive in my own. I been in a negative state for sometime and fear has cripple me my entire life. Your words of wisdom have inspired me to do better in what is left of my life. I am in my late 60,s and thank you. One day we will all meet!!!
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Thank you, Dom.
Best, Mike.
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Great message ! You have touched me. God Bless You,sorry for your short life ! May God continue to be with you and your family. Hugs sweetie and God Bless !
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hi Mike, you sound wise beyond your years. I’m truly sorry we won’t have you here for decades to come, but your spirit will carry on and your unique insight WILL make a difference, you must believe that. And I beg to differ, but I think it’s very brave and selfLESS of you to share these thoughts. THANK YOU for making the most of the time you do have here and inspiring the world to be a kinder gentler place. God bless you and grant peace to you and your loved ones.
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What a wonderful message, but you know it don’t have to end there. I am a born again Christian and I have a duty to tell you about a life after death. You may not have gone to church in your life time but it doesn’t matter. The bible says in John 3 verses 16&17, For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life. 17.for God did not send His Son into the world to condem the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. I felt I had to tell you this as when I stand before God myself I don’t want God to say to me why didn’t you tell this man about me. So please I have to give you this opportunity to choose for yourself. God bless. Miriam. X
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When reading this, I felt the same as Miriam. We are only here but for an instant, and once we leave this earth we have eternity ahead of us. I pray that you will come to know the love of Christ as he loves you so very, very much. God bless you!
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“Let your life be shaped by decisions you made, not by the ones you didn’t.”
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God bless you !!!! Your word will go for for so many people everywhere !! I know I am sharing this on FB and I saw this on someone else page. You touched my heart !!!
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God is great for creating you! You have grown old and wise beyond your years and your wisdom of life is astounding … many will never fathom this. Your words are so true and genuinely resonate your purpose in life for sharing them with us. We all will leave our legacy in here even it only be a piece of a puzzle into the huge picture of life, some colourfull and some just a “piece of the sky” but ultimately we hope to see the final awesome scenic view for which our piece of the puzzle has contributed to. Trust in the Lord for He is the ultimate goal for us all.
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Thank you for your parting words. They mean alot to me. Xx
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Dear ‘mylasttie’,
You’ll never know the impact your words have made on me. All I can say is, from the bottom of my broken heart which is now on the mend, thank you so very much.
May God bless you continually in this life and the next. Have a safe and peaceful journey my darling. I will never forget you.
Lots of love, laughter and light.
Tamara
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When you see the brightness of the tie you have chosen, it is wonderful how your words are brighter still. Everyone has forgotten the tie while reading.
Be as big and brave going forward and be glad for what you have acheived.
Much love to you x
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Thank you, tough day at work today, you made me realis, I love my job, I can make a difference, i just need to believe in myself. You words have inspired me
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I just want you to know you have changed many lives and will continue to do so with your words.
You Inspire others to shed their what if’s and maybe’s and grab life by the horns and run with it.
Thank you for sharing your gift with others so they may learn or maybe see things in a different light.
Even though I have never met you, I will remember your words…
Much Love,
M
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Prayers. What a great writing and the tie is perfect
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You are wise beyond your years. May God bless you. Your story must be what God put you on earth for, you are leaving this earth a better place with your story. Many people live a long life never realizing what you have in your 24 years. I was so touched by your story. I hope your departure will be quick & painless. Again May God bless you mylasttie.🌷
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Thank you for writing this, and thank you for opening your heart and allowing us to see a glimpse of it; it’s truly beautiful. Your message has no limit to just how far it will reach! You’ve made the world a brighter place just by being here! Just wanted to let you know that you’re in my thoughts as you continue your journey.
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We see, read, are told many things . Inundated by social media messages however your clarity, your sense of being , your awareness is fabulous
It’s saddening that you at 24 are so articulate and that you have to depart so early. Your ripples of wisdom, your words will reach many and WILL make an impact. I’m going to share them with my children and I am going to absorb them too.
Many a day I’m grumpy, snappy, indecisive, rude even and procrastinate on my health, working out and your description of “body as a box” and making it work for the individual
To Leave an impression on the earth
You have – thankyou
Take care
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Thank you for sharing.
Best, Mike.
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Wishing you all the best for your Journey, and as someone else mentioned, a gentle passing. I pray that you have accomplished some of the things you’ve wished to during your time here on earth. I am, at my old age, really learning about God and Jesus, as it’s never too late! Know that the Lord loves you, and soon, you will be home. Thank you for posting. You have made a beautiful contribution for many! xo
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So very well written. I can totally understand your comments and thank you for publishing. Best wishes
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Powerful
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I hope people will, for once, read AND act on this shared wisdom. We can all go tomorrow, why is it so hard for us to realize that? Thank you for this beautiful and essential reminder.
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Louise, it’s almost like most of us are cursed with a deep held view that we are eternal. We’re not.
You’re so right.
Best, Mike.
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Thank you for your insight. You are wise beyond your years. I’m 59 years old and I have always tried to live my life to the fullest and always felt blessed. A beautiful wife, two kids, great friends and a nice home. Then last month I was diagnosed with Hematoma Carcinoma (Bile Duct Cancer). Doctors have given me 8 to 11 months. It’s times like these when I fall short on words. Thank you for sharing. God bless you!
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Thanks for sharing, Craig. God bless you also.
Best, Mike.
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so beautiful, enjoy your journey beautiful brother.
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You probably did more with what you wrote here, than most of the rest of us will do with all the time we have. Thanks for the wake up call!
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I struggle with depression and associated things, and have done most of my life. It is so easy to hide away and let the days pass by. My dad is also in his last few weeks of life and it hits you how short life is, and how quickly it goes. I want to start living my life, properly, and am going to make a concerted effort every day to work towards that. Thank you for your words and your beautiful tie; whenever i’m struggling I will think of your tie (and smile) and remember your words. Love and light to you on your journey xxxx
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Thank you so much for this…..you have opened my eyes and given me the strength to begin something I have always wanted to do….may your spirit continue on, you are wise beyond your years. In love and light, Kara
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Thanks for waking my heart up. At 67 years old, I plan to leave your words as part of my last instructions to my children and grandchildren. You words and strength will continue in my family for at least two more generations. May the Lord bless and keep you; may He shine His countenance upon you. You have realized His greatest lesson: LOVE. thanks.
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Thank you for the write-up. I have heard everything you wrote before, but it coming from you gave it meaning. I am 23years old, and i just imagined myself in your shoes. All i can say is God be with you all the way. Although you will be surrounded by your loved ones, they cant go on this journey with you. But the Holyghost can. He’ll take away fear and anxiety. He will lead you by His hand into that beautiful Kingdom: Heaven!
Again, God be with you.
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Life lessons
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Please Please ask Jesus to forgive your sins(we all have sinned at one time or other)and come into your heart, and take over your life.
Jesus will do just that and you will feel the joy of knowing Him and He will lead you Home safely and without fear!!
Rhonda Steeves…..I like your tie too!
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it is my birthday today…and you have touched me…
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you must be going through a very difficult time and hope your last days are joyful ones doing what you want and love with whom you want to and love God bless you 0 🙂
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True words, an inspiration I am sure to all that new you and indeed those who know no of you. Thank you for those encouraging words of wisdom Gngb xxx
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God bless you. These words were very heart warming. XXX
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Dear mylasttie,
Thank you.
Your words have come at the perfect time to help me realise… what I already know but sometimes… allow myself to forget.
Life is too short! I will do my best to follow your advice and the best I can be.
Thank you x
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What a touching piece, brave guy, but bang on! Puts things into perspective
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Something real to think about.
Good for me, at 12 days on the DL, to truly ponder this post.
Hope it brings you something, as well.
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Reblogged this on SON OF GAM and commented:
Beautiful last blog post by an inspiring 24 year old who died of cancer. Read it!
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